Even though I have answered this via PM and Forums, I will post here also just in case another BBOS member/guests needs these links.
To install the BlackBerry OS from your PC via Desktop Manager Software to BlackBerry, check out How to upgrade your device (pictures and video)
To find & remove the vendor.xml file(s), check out How To search for & delete your vendor.xml file
I've never Loaded an update on my own its always Been Auto Through Desktop Manager. How do I Transfer the Link you sent me from my Phone To my PC or can I Just Do it From my Phone & how do I Delete Vendor.XLM