What I have tried to fix.
- Batt pulls
- Installing and reinstalling BBM 5.0 from both app world and OTA provided
- 6 different themes...not all mine
- Install and re install of themes
- changing icon setting in advanced options to all available choices
- resetting the default arrangement
- Sending service books ? just for kicks
- Hiding/ unhiding the icon
That's all I could think of. Next step is a reload of the OS, then BBM 5.0 and then themes I guess. I don't want to go through that before the weekend so I hope someone can help with a fix before then.