aight...i said earlier that my icon was updating nicely with the elle theme and that it might be theme related. well i uninstalled something and rebooted my phone to complete the uninstall. when i booted back up my icon was the stupid red umbrella from berryweather. i may have found a fix for it. when you first change themes it seems to work then after your first reboot it stops working. just change themes...then change back to the one you want. it's working for me to do that...give it a try and see if it works for you.